Monday, November 28, 2022

Forgive? YES!

     WOW! Just read an awesome devotional... This book - 


    is one of my devotionals that I go back to... Being an old comic book fan (pre LGBT propaganda days) this book caught my eye at the local discount Christian bookseller in Jackson - https://www.christianpublishersoutlet.com/ - they don't show it available on the website, but Amazon has it - https://a.co/d/fRAaBir

    Anyway - today I read about Spider-Man 3 and Venom. I don't remember a lot about the movie, but Ed, the author, has done a GREAT job making it into a story of forgiveness, and noted that it incorporates God, but not blatantly... If it's too blatant, people will reject it, but things in 'story form' ? People accept!

    This reminded me of a pocket reminder coin that I carry - I had misplaced it, but found it and now have it in my pocket as a reminder to Forgive!


    What does this mean? Here's the verse!


    So as you go about your business day to day, whether you are a Christian or not, remember to forgive! As Ed points out in the devotional, anger and hate and 'need for revenge' will take over your feelings and ultimately your life! Forgiveness is a gift you actually give YOURSELF! Ever been mad at someone or hurt about something and then find out they didn't even realize it or remember it? Who do you think the lack of forgiveness has been hurting? Yep...

    I won't say it's easy... I've had some major things <salute> that have eaten at me over the years, and I've had to ask God to help me forgive. It's not easy, and the two people specifically that I'm thinking of? They don't even know I've forgiven them. Neither have asked for my forgiveness so I've not brought it up, but it has FREED MY MIND to concentrate on doing good, on witnessing, on enjoying time with others.

    Have I forgotten? No. Do you forget when something has caused you pain? Especially if the scars are still there? No - but that doesn't mean you can't forgive. How many times? Well...




Friday, November 25, 2022

Black Friday

    

    No - we don't 'do' Black Friday at my house. We will browse for sales online (I actually placed an order for a gift yesterday while quietly enjoying some Sawdust Pie - in a pecan shell, of all things!) and I did make a McDonald's run this morning because Emmett wanted pancakes. :-) 

    I was placing the order on my phone and said "hotcakes" and he said, "no, Pop, I want PAN cakes."

    So otherwise, the day has been a long one in Indy enjoying time with Kyle, except when he was at work, and Devin and Emmett. He spent a big part of the day using his imagination in "Mimi & Pop's room" with us.

    Vanessa is not feeling so hot. Her foot is healing, but still has a ways to go. It's that time of year, and things are busy. Taking care of her mom & dad is something she and I are happy to do, but I can tell it's adding to the stress. We have a conference coming up and I'm hoping that it will be some 'quiet time' away as well as getting some excitement back about teaching...

    I have a link to share - feel free, gentle reader, to go read this man's common words said in a VERY uncommon way first, then come back for my rebuttal - LOL

    https://open.substack.com/pub/garrisonkeillor/p/an-old-man-thinking-at-the-thanksgiving?r=1owyn8&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=email

    Back? Okay...

    I love me some live shows as well, sir, and I totally get that! I am six foot four inches with bad knees as well and there are some things you just have to work around. :-) I have very few shirts, as compared to some people, and will cycle through them for work and church. I also have very few board games, considering that's such a fun hobby of mine! As much as I enjoy playing games, I own the ones that I WANT to play the most, plus a few I've picked up because Vanessa wanted it, or I thought it would be good for 'party' time get togethers (family times). Those don't happen much though...

    I very much enjoyed your paragraph about church! I regret to say that I didn't take my Christianity as serious when I was younger, but I've committed myself to Him and am always TRYING to be on the lookout for opportunities to serve.

    And the story of leading the people in the songs! Yes! I can so much relate to that! We don't have sing a longs any more, and that's a sad thing... It's also one of the things I enjoyed most about your radio show. The ones I've listened to over and over have me remembering the songs and singing along. I love your 'parody' lyrics of "the blue black bugs" and other ones, and I still relate "Hello Love" to YOUR voice, not others I've heard sing it. I felt like you meant it when I saw you in Memphis and when I would listen on the radio.

    One last thing - I wasn't the oldest at Thanksgiving - that honor fell to my daughter-in-laws father, but Vanessa and I weren't too far behind I'm sure. :-) I did have the realization a few years ago at the funeral of an aunt that MY generation (me, my siblings, my cousins) were now the OLDEST generation on my father's side... He was one of eight kids and now they are all gone.

    So this trip is drawing to a close. I'm not at all excited about having to leave. It's been fun, but I know we have things to do at home... We have a home to finish prepping, for one thing (I have more switches and receptacles to change out - I need to build some shelves, etc.) - and the work responsibilities, as well as doctor visits (hello again getting older! Did you think I forgot you?) and taking care of the in-laws. But I have the pleasure of spending time with the family and traveling with Vanessa. I pray she can make it through this time and come out the other side with happy memories... Ya'll pray too, please!


Tuesday, November 22, 2022

Thanksgiving 2022

    I'm sitting here at my son's house - everyone is asleep except for him, playing video games, and me, typing this blog...

    I just finished helping a friend with her daughter's computer via TeamViewer - handy dandy little piece of software!

    Anyway - I was looking at the info in my contacts and saw I have a TON of 'home page' entries, including this blog. Boy was I surprised to see it's been SO very long since I put any words down...

    So what to do with this page? This post? So much going through my mind right now... So much concern for a certain lady that has a broken foot, but even more so a broken heart... I love her so much, but can't fix the internal things, no matter how much I'd like to...

    So just consider this a 'get reacquainted,' gentle reader, as I work through some thoughts and hopefully start with this again. I have so very much to be thankful for in life, and even more so in the afterlife, but I also know that this time of year is rough on some people. I pray for an extra ounce of grace for all those that are suffering, and some extra patience for those that come into contact with them.

    That's all for now - God Bless, and Happy Thanksgiving!!!